By Ian Chow, Certified Massage Therapist / Infant Massage Instructor / Oncology Massage Trainer
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Yoni in sanskrit means “sacred space” which represent the vulva or vagina. Yoni massage, like the manhood massage, is not about having orgasm or reaching sexual climax; it can be uplifting, emotional and to some, healing. I know of an associate in USA who uses yoni massage as one of her modality in helping sexual abuse victim or those who have gone through any form of sexual trauma.
For me, I feel it certainly does help the receiver to feel more in tune, to understand their body more especially in that private region. But whether it does have any direct medical benefit is something that is not proven and I can’t vouch for that as well.
Similar to manhood therapy, the entire massage starts with a full body massage (but this modality will also include breast massage) before working directly on the yoni itself. In the later part of the massage, it does involve both external and internal manipulation of the yoni. Among the techniques used for this portion include gentle stretching, acupressure, vibration, press and squeeze and finger tapping / strokes.
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After learning the art, I feel in order to give a good yoni massage, preparing the space and the mind with good intention is crucial before we even do the touch introduction. Having a deep steady breathing that in sync with the receiver is another important aspect. Consent, respect and mindfulness touch at all times during the therapy are of great importance by both the receiver and giver.
Compared to manhood therapy, I feel the journey of the entire yoni massage when done properly is so much more spiritual. I am not an energy healer practitioner but I do believe in body energy e.g. chi and aura. It feels as though that yoni massage does tap into this realm of healing. It is certainly not those massage where the therapist goes with “no pain, go gain” concept to fix a dysfunction or injury. It is the softer and gentler approach that will do most of the work here.
When the therapy finishes, offering aftercare for the receiver is crucial. It is also a period for the receiver to settle down. Plus, one may experience an emotional outburst (even during the session) but regardless, it is important to acknowledge whatever emotion that may surface.
As of now, after completing the course, I am unsure whether I am ready to offer this therapy publicly. Not because it is a taboo from where I am based but whether I have the capability and ability to heal via this modality. I shall see where this leads me. If any of you would like to explore a session, we can chat (no promise though).
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